"No, honey," my wife said in to the phone as she tried to explain it, again, to her best friend. "It has to be unconditional or there is no point. She grabbed me by the hair and pulled me deeper in to her sopping sex as she spoke. "For instance, I’m making him service me right now with his mouth. It doesn’t matter that I just let him ejaculate inside of me. The fact that he doesn’t want to do it only makes it better for me, and reinforces his place in our relationship…"